Author Topic: I just love when all types of shiznet hit the fan at once... (Read 10059 times)

ShamanKachinamon · « **on:** September 28, 2004, 06:20:52 pm »

Oh boy where do I begin? For starters, one of my sisters looks like she's getting divorced...again. -_- That and she's wanting me to move back in with her. Uh, no thanks. I enjoy having a quiet place to come home to after a 10 hour work day. Along those same lines, some of both mine and my boyfriends families want us to get hitched. We've only been going out for a month people!!!!!!!!! And they wonder why I'm stinking gunshy about marriage in the first place. :?

Sarra · « **Reply #1 on:** September 28, 2004, 08:51:16 pm »

It's your choice. I think your sister just wants someone to be there for her all the time. I can understand how you feel, though. I don't think anyone would blame you if you decided not to move in with her.

If my parents wanted me to get married (I would literelly kill myself before getting married), I would simply tell them that it's my choice, and that if I don't want to make such a comittment, I definatly am not going to.

Unknown Neo · « **Reply #2 on:** September 29, 2004, 06:05:48 pm »

poor shaman a month is way too soon
unless you're famous of course :lol:

ShamanKachinamon · « **Reply #3 on:** October 04, 2004, 04:57:08 pm »

lol lol

ShamanKachinamon · « **Reply #4 on:** October 11, 2004, 05:26:10 pm »

Time to add to this little rant topic:

My boss had to leave early today due to an emergency with his child, then our secretary's fiance's grandfather passed away suddenly about midmorning. And we're still in the dark if all those surguries are still on or not...

Sarra · « **Reply #5 on:** October 11, 2004, 08:49:08 pm »

Whoa. When the shit hits the fan, it really hits it hard.

Unknown Neo · « **Reply #6 on:** October 12, 2004, 04:49:30 pm »

ow... yeah

longWriter · « **Reply #7 on:** October 20, 2004, 07:06:01 pm »

Sounds like there are multiple fans, both of the ceiling and desk-stand varieties. That's been my experience, anyhow...and the fans tend to work independently of each other. Like they're not all on the same curcuit-breaker.

ShamanKachinamon · « **Reply #8 on:** October 24, 2004, 05:08:19 pm »

Indeedy, longwriter.

Anywho, lo and behold when I came in Friday night my grandmother had to be rushed to the hospital (small stroke) and may have surgery (or not) tommorrow.

ShamanKachinamon · « **Reply #9 on:** November 02, 2004, 06:56:28 pm »

Forgive me for being not on the board. Much insanity in the past week...

Grandmother's had her procedure and is home, (yeah for me) now boyfriend's grandmother is in hospital and it doesn't look like she's coming back home. -_- And he's starting to close himself off.

And of course I've got the usual sinus infection... :?

Sarra · « **Reply #10 on:** November 02, 2004, 11:00:45 pm »

That's horrible.

Just let your boyfriend deal with this how he needs to. = Closing off is usually part of how things work... At least, I've seen that from my friends.

Unknown Neo · « **Reply #11 on:** November 03, 2004, 06:00:55 pm »

boy it seems to just pile on doesn't it

ShamanKachinamon · « **Reply #12 on:** November 17, 2004, 07:21:27 pm »

Oh now I shall add to this idiotcy. My boyfriend's grandmother passed away on Saturday. (At least he called me to tell me since I was out of state visiting college buddies over the weekend). While visiting my friends, we nearly get ran over twice in two days. The first near miss is what pissed me off when I saw that the driver didn't even had her 3 kids strapped in. :x :fumes:

Anyways, we've stopped going out on dates until the situation with his grandfather (terminal cancer) gets resolved and he comes out from being a hermit. Which is fine with me considering that I've went through a rough winter with my grandmother's death and it made me become closed off to people when my family wasn't looking. It got tolerable the more time pasted but, bleh, it still sucks.

ShamanKachinamon · « **Reply #13 on:** November 29, 2004, 07:05:10 pm »

Boyfriend was a pallbearer again today. grandfather died on Saturday. :cry:

Now I'm down w/ some stomach virus and my sinuses are giving me ever living hell!! :x

Stormrunner · « **Reply #14 on:** November 29, 2004, 10:12:16 pm »

*huggles* I know how your boyfriend feels, except it wasn't that close together...

I lost my grandmother on mom's side in November my freshman year of high school, then I lost my grandfather on my dad's in March.

It was a bad year.

Unknown Neo · « **Reply #15 on:** November 30, 2004, 06:53:46 pm »

wow it is a bad year for shaman and her boyfriend

ShamanKachinamon · « **Reply #16 on:** December 02, 2004, 07:58:21 pm »

Thanks for the hugs, Stormrunner.

Unknown, you have no idea how nuts it's been...

Unknown Neo · « **Reply #17 on:** December 02, 2004, 10:09:11 pm »

no, no I don't but it has to get back doesn't it?

ShamanKachinamon · « **Reply #18 on:** December 07, 2004, 11:31:04 am »

I'm sooo sick I've been doing this. :cry: :cry:

For starters, it's the second day in a row I had to come home early b/c I've been breaking out (from what I haven't a clue), fever, sore muscles, upset stomach, feeling dizzy, and basically feeling like someone has worked me over with a sledgehammer.

Secondly, remember when I said that my boyfriend wanted to put a halt on dating until this mess w/ his family gets resolved? Well, when we chatted last night he asked me if I was going out with someone and even offered to hook me up with one of his friends. But I'm not picking up that "I'm scoping a girl out" type of vibe from him. Now is he really wanting to break up with me or is he just afraid that I won't go back out with him after all this family fiasco??? Advice please if you wish to dispense it, either by posting or e-mail { shamankachina@hotmail.com, shamankachinamon69@yahoo.com}

Now, excuse me while I go try and stop my head from spinning. :shock:

Unknown Neo · « **Reply #19 on:** December 07, 2004, 09:44:47 pm »

awwwww... poor shaman *pats on head* do you need a hug? and he might not want to dump his problems on you now seeing as you have your own problems

ShamanKachinamon · « **Reply #20 on:** December 08, 2004, 08:30:45 am »

A good point unknown. And I can take all the hugs I can get.

Sarra · « **Reply #21 on:** December 08, 2004, 01:21:54 pm »

Quote from: "ShamanKachinamon"

A good point unknown. And I can take all the hugs I can get.

I'm in the same spot right now. *Hugs*

Unknown Neo · « **Reply #22 on:** December 08, 2004, 09:20:49 pm »

here I'll give you a bearhug then shaman *bearhug* feel better now I hope

ShamanKachinamon · « **Reply #23 on:** December 14, 2004, 07:06:43 pm »

Beginning to, unknown. I get to see him on Saturday.

And what crazy stuffs in your life, Chi???

Unknown Neo · « **Reply #24 on:** December 14, 2004, 10:10:20 pm »

good for you shaman good for you

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